Anyone who remembers being a teenager can attest to the fact that it can be the most challenging time of your life. There are so many expectations – from your parents, peers and yourself – that it can be both overwhelming and discouraging. In this time of confusion and constant transition, teens often make mistakes. It’s a part of learning. It’s a part of growing. And it offers parents a chance to communicate with their teens on a deeper level – and to help guide them through some of their toughest situations.
I know this first-hand not only from working with clients, but also from parenting my teenager. And as the parent of a teen who has made some very public mistakes (like that time he took alcohol to school), I know how critical it is to appropriately handle the crucial conversations that follow when your teen screws up. Using these three tips, you can be better prepared to respond appropriately when your teen makes a disappointing decision.
1) Don’t judge.
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2) Stay calm.
3) Remain emotionally connected.
